Today was a rough day. Nothing specific, just felt like going through the motions was like waking through mud today. I am so grateful for those moments in time, like Sunday, when I feel the Lord's presence so profoundly. Those moments carry me through the rest of the days when I struggle desperately. Today I didn't feel God, not even once but times like Sunday remind me that He is there even though I don't feel His presence.
Is it completely wrong for the girl who loves God, who believes He is good even when life isn't, who works for a Christian ministry, to say things like I didn't feel God today? Does that mean, as was so often told to me growing up, that I don't really trust Him because I don't always feel Him? Does it make my faith less if I share my doubts and fears? I don't know the answer. I do know though that on days like today, I have to hold on to what I know to be true not what I feel to be true.
Today brought the opportunity to talk to the HR person at my work. I really like her and I trust her. I went into her office and told her about my concerns with the health class that our work is sponsoring being either triggering or enabling to me. She is the only person at my work who I have told that I struggle to eat, that I have major depressive disorder, and that some days going though the motions is overwhelming.
I told her I don't want to make this public knowledge at the moment. I don't want my plate analyzed by every person in the office. I don't want the calorie police hovering over me and worrying even when I'm doing ok. (I told Hubby that calories are the little bastards that hide in your closet and sew your clothes smaller while you sleep. He laughed. And that is completely off subject and random. :) )
On a food note, I'm both struggling and doing well. I'm maintaining but at the moment the thoughts are pretty aggressive. Like for instance, I had my physical recently. My weight was satisfactory. My ideal however, I realized in reading through my journal, is 5 lbs lighter than what my ideal was this time last year. I feel the viciousness of the cycle that insists that no matter how much you lose, it isn't good enough for Orange.
My doctor allowed me to opt out of the metabolism screening which is good, that is always very triggering to me. So I didn't have the extent of numbers to contend with that I usually have but I still had the scale numbers to contend with. I still had questions from the new nurse wondering if I'm eating enough calories. I told her yes. And then I told her that I'm not counting them so I suppose I'm getting enough. When I'm counting them I know I'm not getting enough.
For the TMI part but it does show how distorted Orange can be.... Before my physical I had a severe kidney infection. The medicine I had to take for it backed up my bowels a LOT. The doctor recommended some different products to help cleanse my colon without being laxatives. It took several days to get back to being able to go. Then for a day it turned into diarrhea and I stopped taking the supplements. Today I contemplated starting them again. The conversation in my head went something like this:
You should finish the full 14 daysNo, I don't want to deal with cramping stomach and emergency trips to the bathroom
Yes, but think of the weight you are losing in cleansingBut the goal of cleansing is to be healthy and get my system jump started a little to get back in the swing of things, it isn't supposed to be about the weight
Keep taking it. A little diarrhea shouldn't be enough to stop you. You can still be in control but really, isn't the diarrhea worth it for what it will do to flatten out your stomach?
And just that quickly the battle is raging again. In my actions I am still pursuing recovery. I am still striving to beat the voice in my head. Sadly though, that voice isn't little and it torments me day and night right now. I covet your prayers right now as the voices are really loud. Please pray for strength for the battle and peace for my heart.
There is still so much more but I've already made this really long and also it is getting very late and I need to attempt to sleep. I need rest so I can be productive at work tomorrow.