Lately the line between my voice and the voice of orange has gotten a little hazy. It is hard sometime to know if I'm full or if orange thinks I've had enough to eat. I know the voice above is orange simply because I feel like screaming it. It is said in a poisonous way, filled with the venom of its hatred. It has become a phrase that I have used multiple times with my dear Hubby, though not ever in the way it sounds in my head. In my head it is snarky. In my head it is angry. In my head the voice screams, "I'm fine, quit asking!" every single time he asks about the amount of food I've taken or if I've had lunch that day.
That's not fine. Fine has no problem telling him what I ate for lunch, because I did indeed eat lunch. Fine doesn't resent him for asking. Fine doesn't feel like tearing his head off for trying to take care of the woman he loves. Fine would let me have a peanut butter cup without remorse, guilt or tears. Fine wouldn't know how many calories are in each banana and each glass of milk. *sigh* I'm not really fine.
I'm not even sure when the line between our voices started to blur. I only realized it was happening when I constantly felt like yelling "I'm fine, leave me alone!" I'm not a yeller. I usually can't stand the idea of yelling so when the voice in my head starts yelling drill sargeant style, I know it isn't my voice. So the voice telling me I'm fine, can't be mine. But the problem is that I'm not sure which voice is mine at the moment. If orange keeps yelling, I'll know it's her. By the same token, when she keeps yelling, it gets really hard to hear anything else.
I'm thankful Hubby had to work an overnight shift today. He didn't notice that I wore a belt with my jeans. I tend to not be a fan of belts and he knows that. They aren't that comfortable and they draw attention to the waist. But today after the billionth time of pulling my jeans up, I went for the belt. I has been months since I have needed a belt. I don't feel like I have lost any weight though. I don't feel like I am any smaller. I don't feel like I look any smaller when I look in the mirror. Hubby hasn't commented and neither had my mom-in-law. Doesn't that mean I'm in the safe zone still?
Grrrrr.......I'm just confused and tired and well apparently not really all that fine after all.