I didn't sleep well last night, I was really restless. Maybe it was because I didn't want to fall asleep because the night before I didn't sleep well either. The night before, I had a nightmare.
In this nightmare, I was in a house that apparently I was familiar with and I heard someone yelling. After a minute or so of hearing it, I realized that I didn't know where my youngest son was. I started looking around the house and realized finally that the yelling was someone yelling AT him. The yelling escalated to screaming at him. I was trying to get to him but suddenly there were boxes and piles of papers and clothes blocking the hallway and I couldn't get to him. The screaming escalated to hitting. The person was beating my son while he whimpered and cried and I couldn't get to him. I needed to protect my child and I couldn't get through the hallway to the room because more and more things were blocking my path. Finally I screamed, "NOOOOO!" and lunged but the stuff still held me back.
There is no worse feeling in the world than feeling like your kids need you and you can't help them. There is no worse feeling in the world than the one I had in my dream of listening to my son being hurt and not being able to stop it. Thankfully, Hubby was awake for some unknown reason. Apparently I whimpered and he woke me up. My son was safe. It was a dream. No one was hurting my family.
Now I will tell you the real reason it bothered me so much. The person hurting my son was someone who loves him. It was someone who he loves. It was someone who should never hurt him (and who in real life would NOT beat him). It was my mother who was attacking my son.
I know all of the psychological reasons that I had the dream. I was hurt and angry with my mom over something else that had happened in the day which is why she was the aggressor in my dream. And I feared for a few minutes for my sons safety at a pool party when he went into the restroom with another little boy who has before made a point of repeatedly showing his "man junk" to my son. The combination of wanting to protect my son and being hurt with my mother created this dream. I know that. It doesn't make it any less disturbing though.
My head hurts this morning. Probably from lack of sleep this weekend. I should be getting ready for work, instead I sit drinking coffee and typing. I wish to insulate my heart from the world, but mostly from my mom. I've been trying not to cry since yesterday morning. My heart is very troubled today. Pray for me today, friends. Pray for God to wrap His arms around me today and for Him to bring healing balm to my wounded heart.