I am torn to shreds hearing comments about "real" rape, "legitimate" rape and "forceable" rape. Is there any other type of rape? Is there a polite way to violate someone so viciously? If there is, I am certainly unaware of it.
How is it possible that once again it is all the woman's fault? SHE got pregnant (never mind that it was because HE forced his deviant way upon her). It must be her fault. Wasn't it her fault that he couldn't control himself in the first place?
I'm sorry, but this time I call bullshit. Ask the friend of my friend who recently birthed the baby of her rapist. Ask her if his assault was welcome. Ask her if her body could have shut down his sperm. Ask any victim of unwanted sexual touch if their experience was "legitimate".
Although I know the controversy is a launching pad for an abortion debate, I can't even get that far right now. All I can hear is that women are responsible for having bodies that men want. All I can hear is that women are responsible for getting pregnant when attacked. All I can hear is that women don't really matter, that their voices aren't heard, that their bodies aren't worth protecting. All I can hear is a man saying what far too many women have been through isn't significant.
Guess what? ALL rape, assault, harassment, unwanted touch is evil. Every last bit of it. If they didn't say yes, then it was forceable. Every single time that someone is raped, whether by a stranger with a knife or a "nice guy" on a date who forgets his boundaries, it is a crime against her body and soul and is a legitimate rape. No matter what, she walks away broken. Physically, emotionally and spiritually broken.